This is the Ramsey Call of the Day, part of the Ramsey Network.

Joining me today is Ramsey personality, Dr. John Deloney.

Wendy is in Sioux Falls, South Dakota.

Hi, Wendy. How are you?

I am fabulous today, Dave. Thank you so much

for taking my call. Sure. Just a straight shoot here. The point of the call is my spouse and I are not

on the same page as far as getting on this plan together. I do know that the full reason is me. We've been together 20 years. I do know that that it, uh, the full reason is me. Um, we've been together 20

years. Um, I'm an alpha female. I've always led. I'm the first born. I've been a single mom.

All of, all of that just puts me the powerhouse. And my husband has been amazing to endure all

of that that comes from me.

But I've gotten to a point this year,

and something John Deloney had said the other day on the show is,

like, sometimes you're just in the corner,

just getting pounded and pounded and pounded

and just waiting for the bell to ring for the round

so you can stand up and reset.

And I just shook with identifying with that this year.

You're getting pounded or you're pounding him?

No, she's getting down.

Well, in life, well, we're both kind of getting pounded in that way, but in like the last year, three kids got married.

We empty nested.

My mom died.

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