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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

How Do I Feel Secure Standing Alone?

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Talk Radio, Default

4.8808 Ratings

🗓️ 10 March 2026

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

Rachel calls in to the hotline today to Talk To Me about her struggles with feeling secure standing alone. After the loss of her husband, she realized she’d never really dealt with abandonment wounds from the past, and is having a really hard time feeling secure in her singleness. How can a person begin to develop that confidence, and even enjoy being alone? Is it wrong to have a desire for a relationship, and how do you know if your desire for connection is healthy or unhealthy? We cover this and more, in today’s episode of Talk To Me! Dig deeper by ordering my new book People Skills anywhere books are sold.  The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of eight books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on Instagram or at DebraFileta.com.

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When you mentioned about trusting God to provide, that has been a hard one for me.

0:18.0

You know, I didn't realize how much I struggled to trust God in that area.

0:24.6

And I guess, you know, looking at it with experiences with my, you know, father and stepfather

0:31.2

and with my husband, you know, I think subconsciously I felt like God was just going to take it away again.

0:40.3

You know, I felt like, you know, maybe I've just screwed up and he just wants me to be alone.

0:47.3

A lot of lies from the enemy.

0:57.6

Are you ready to talk to me?

1:03.8

My name is Deborah Felita and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and author.

1:11.9

Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic, counseling-style

1:19.0

sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my guests and callers an

1:24.9

opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.

1:29.1

Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,

1:34.4

mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally, together.

1:39.5

None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life, but we don't have to walk this path

1:46.8

alone. I'm so proud and honored to be having these conversations with men and women who are

1:53.0

courageously paving the way for open and honest conversations about their personal journey of

1:58.3

healing. So if you're ready, let's talk.

2:02.8

In celebration of my new book People Skills,

2:06.3

we're dedicating the next few weeks to conversations

2:08.9

that will help us better relate to God, self, and others.

2:13.0

I've opened the hotlines to process topics such as vulnerability,

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