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O'Liku everyone in the Gulf Tour I received a number of letters. Here's another one of them.

When someone gets on your last nerve and you ran out of patients and the person replies,

this is because of Shetan how do you respond you don't respond

when somebody gets on your last nerve and you explode first of all you shouldn't have been in that position

you should allow you know a lot of times we confuse

bottling things up with patients. When you just stay quiet and don't say

anything that doesn't mean you're being patient. Patience actually means that

you can remain calm but when you're being offended or something wrong is being said,

you can respectfully speak out and say that's not true or that's not acceptable.

That's not losing patients.

And if you did come to the point where you had to snap and somebody took advantage of that and called you Shaitan or that's because of Shaitan you know what? Maybe they're right and you know what if that at that point you don't really have any point in continuing the conversation, what are you going to get out of it? No, it's not Chaitan. What are you going to do? Those are the kinds of situations where you say,

Salam' and peace, I'm out, we can't have this conversation anymore.

In-shala, we'll talk another time.

Any situation you're in where you're losing your calm, you should try to avoid.

And if it's getting to that point, you should actually let the other know that they're being offensive.

Or they're hurting your feelings.

It's as simple as that.

And you know, when you think staying silent or not saying anything is the same as patients that's your

mistake it's not anybody else's human beings can't keep things bottled up they

can't it's the way in which you express your frustration that's patients

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