It is well known that desire is the cause of all sorrows and tension.

But being a wife and a mother, being a wife and a mother, I can't get rid of these desires.

I seek your valuable advice in this regard. Thank you.

No.

It's not because you're a wife, an intern, a mother, that your desires have come.

If you were nobody's wife, you were, probably you were desiring.

And when you were nobody's wife, you were desiring to be somebody's wife.

Now that you're somebody's wife, you desire to have a child and become a mother.

Now that you have a child, now you're saying, it is these two entities which is making me desire.

It is not true.

If you were nobody's nothing, even then your desire would still burn within you.

Is that so?

Yes or no?

If you're nothing to nobody in the world, still your desire would burn, isn't it?

So please don't think your desires are because of your child or your husband or your family

or whatever.

Any way you would desire because that's your nature.

Now you made a statement in the question that desire is the source of all misery.

Desire is not the source of all misery, unfulfilled desire is the source of all misery.

Isn't it so?

Desires fulfilled are the source of your joy, unfulfilled desires is the source of your misery.

Now what to do with the desire?

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