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My husband is kind of, he's like a crazy spender, and I think I'm being lied to. I know we're

behind on a mortgage. It's just been tough. Oh, I'm so sorry, Michelle.

I know you're hurt and I know you're afraid to say the least.

And we're going to try to walk through this with you.

Do you all, by the way you set up the question, I'm guessing or wondering if you have separate finances.

So we have separate finances because it's a second marriage for both of us.

Okay.

And we've had a pre-nup since the beginning, which is fine.

On who made who sign it?

He made me sign it.

Okay.

But now I'm actually really thankful because he's this vendor.

And it's very, it's been scary because I just, I know the mortgage hasn't been paid

in months.

The home has a fair amount of equity, but I can't convince him to sell it because he thinks that he's a developer.

So he thinks the next thing is down, you know, around the corner.

And it just makes me nervous.

We have kids together.

They're in high school.

And like I said, I do have my own finances, but I have also let him

borrow quite a sum of money. And I just to the point from you or or in your name.

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