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Coaching Real Leaders

How Do I Balance My Career Ambitions as Part of a Dual-Career Couple?

Coaching Real Leaders

Harvard Business Review / Muriel Wilkins

Executive, Business/careers, Leadership, Careers, Business/management, Sessions, Hbr, Coaching, Review, Society & Culture, C-suite, Leaders, Harvard, Business, Management

4.8660 Ratings

🗓️ 7 October 2024

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

She has ambitions to reach the C-suite, but her career has hit a plateau. Opportunities in her current role have stalled, and she feels her options are limited as she tries to balance her career with that of her partner’s. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through reframing her career stagnation and the steps she can take to continue her professional growth.

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0:00.0

I'm Ariel Wilkins and this is Coaching Real Leaders, part of the HBR podcast network.

0:12.8

I'm a longtime executive coach who works with highly successful leaders who've hit a bump in the road.

0:18.3

My job is to help them get over that bump by clarifying their goals

0:21.7

and figuring out a way to reach them so that hopefully they can lead with a little more ease.

0:26.8

I typically work with clients over the course of several months, but on this show, we have a one-time

0:31.8

coaching meeting focusing on a specific leadership challenge they're facing.

0:45.9

Today's guest is someone will call Allie to protect her confidentiality.

0:51.0

She's far along in her career and has a good sense of her own leadership style and strengths, as well as her long-term goals.

0:53.5

I would say I'm really at a pivot point in my career.

0:57.0

I've been really at a point of wanting to accelerate my scope of responsibility.

1:02.0

I do lead a large team currently.

1:05.0

Still, I know that there's more that I'm capable of, the more that I want to do and continue to grow.

1:10.0

To really sea level level executive space.

1:14.1

Allie landed in her current position as a result of trying to balance a dual career household

1:18.9

and due to organizational circumstances beyond her control. Her spouse was recently offered

1:24.7

a role that they didn't think he should turn down, but it also meant de-prioritizing Allie's trajectory.

1:31.4

It's truly an amazing opportunity and probably a job that would only come around once or twice within his career.

1:38.4

We've been able to balance our family careers pretty well, and this was, I would say, unplanned.

1:45.7

So I think we were discussing that it was my turn to go after another scope of responsibility

1:53.2

and unfortunately it really feels like a pause on my career progression.

1:58.3

The added complexity is my current company is going through a massive restructure.

2:03.5

So the majority of leadership roles that I was identifying as my next step no longer exists in my

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