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Brian Preston, CPA, CFP®, PFS and Bo Hanson, CFA, CFP® | Fee-Only Fiduciary Advisors

Education, Retirement, Moneyadvice, Investing, Savingmoney, Personalfinance, Business

4.6 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2025

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Nathyn (29) and Indie (29) might have a positive net worth, but their fears leave them feeling negative about their money conversations. Indie worries about the now, while Nathyn focuses on the future. We sit down to find the balance between both perspectives. From emergency fund to retirement savings to auto loans, we talk through their full financial picture. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jump start your journey with our FREE financial resources⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Reach your goals faster with our products⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Take the relationship to the next level: become a client⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe on YouTube for early access and go beyond the podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with us on social media for more content⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Bring confidence to your wealth building with simplified strategies from The Money Guy. Learn how to apply financial tactics that go beyond common sense and help you reach your money goals faster. Make your assets do the heavy lifting so you can quit worrying and start living a more fulfilled life. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DRINKAG1.com/MONEYGUY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I am stuck in a conflict because I agree with him.
0:03.9	Everything he tells me, I completely agree.
0:05.8	We need to be saving for a future and we have been and we've been doing well.
0:09.0	And he just wants more.
0:10.4	And that's completely understandable.
0:12.0	But I'm stuck in that internal conflict of knowing what life is going to be like for us after our kids are grown and gone, but also me living for my children and wanting to give
0:21.7	our family as much as we can today.
0:29.9	The 29 military, 7-year-old, 5-year-old.
0:35.0	Yes.
0:35.6	What brings you guys in today?
0:36.5	I have a strong focus and a lot of
0:40.0	stress about whether or not we're putting enough and investing into our future. And I think
0:44.8	Indy is on the other side where she's trying to make sure that we're investing enough in our now
0:50.8	and the experiences in our children and our upbringing and our growth. Coming from today,
0:57.0	hopefully we get this idea on how we might be able to better balance those two ideas. So you're
1:02.4	obviously focused on the future and saving for the future and that sort of thing, but you feel
1:05.9	like you're missing out on stuff today. Give us some flavor and context for why you feel that way. So I live for my
1:12.4	children. I do. And I've been a stay-at-home mom for five years. I want to give them all
1:18.6	the opportunities that I possibly can, going on trips and having experiences that way or them doing
1:25.7	extracurricular activities, anything like that. I want to be able to give that to them.
1:31.3	He's very into like what is going to, what is our life going to be like when we're 50?
1:36.6	And I'm like, I don't know what next week's going to be like.
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