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🗓️ 10 September 2024
⏱️ 64 minutes
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0:00.0 | Do you ever catch yourself reacting to a situation and wonder where the hell did that come from? |
0:06.1 | One minute you're fine and the next year spiraling into anxiety or lashing out in anger. It's like your emotional thermostat is set to overreact, |
0:16.1 | but you can't really figure out how to reset it. |
0:18.8 | I've been there. |
0:19.9 | For most of my life, I felt like the odd one out, even in a room full of friends. |
0:24.8 | It was like there was this invisible wall between me and everyone else. |
0:28.9 | I'd make connections, but they never really seemed to stick. People would drift away and I'd be left wondering |
0:34.6 | what the F was wrong with me. I couldn't see that this was an internal pattern |
0:39.2 | because it was always external situations. |
0:42.7 | So it wasn't until I really dug into my past that I realized that all this crap stemmed from |
0:47.8 | my parents divorce when I was just a year old. |
0:50.0 | Yeah, that might be too simplistic and I know what you're thinking. |
0:54.0 | How can you be affected by something you can't even remember? |
0:57.2 | But that's the crazy part about our brains. |
0:59.9 | They're like these supercomputers that store every little thing, even the stuff we think we've forgotten. |
1:06.0 | And I really don't like when people say, oh, all of this was from my parents' divorce or |
1:09.7 | from this one thing. |
1:11.1 | There's definitely more complexities, but I can see that that is where my pattern started. |
1:16.9 | Well here's the thing. We're all walking around with invisible wounds from our childhood. |
1:25.9 | Some are gaping and obvious and others are kind of subtle scratches that we barely notice. But they're all shaping how we move through the world as adults. |
1:32.1 | So maybe you grew up with a critical parent and now you |
1:34.8 | battle constant self-doubt. Or perhaps you never really felt seen as a child, so you |
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