to the other person.

And usually, based off the way that you attach to somebody,

usually you start to look for a person to attach to

that is going to bring out the triggers within you.

But it's also really important for you to understand this within yourself, but also so you can understand your partner.

And oftentimes, people don't realize this, but your partner will be a proxy for your parents.

So what is unheeled in your parental relationships will come up in your romantic relationships.

The universe will continue to keep presenting you with the thing that you need to learn and get better at until you decide to actually learning it better at it.

I have a friend whose husband, like she has a, she has a tumultuous relationship with her mother, I'll put it that way.

Her husband, she didn't realize it until about a year of being married to him, is almost exactly like her mother.

And so she has this tumultuous relationship

with her mother, and now all of those things

are coming up in a relationship with her husband.

And so, let's dive into it, let's talk about it, but I'm going to say three different statements to you.

And I want you to find out which of these three statements do you feel describe you the most accurately.

Okay? Statement A is, I... feel describe you the most accurately.

Okay?

Statement A is I find it relatively easy

to get close to others, and I am comfortable

depending on them and having them depend on me. I don't worry about being abandoned or about someone

getting too close to me. The statement A hit home with you.

Okay, here is statement B.

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