Alright, so let's, let's, alright, so first question here.

I think this is, this doesn't make sense to me, but anyway, there's a video I saw an instant, Shade Barrow that was saying, ladies, what would you, would you be offended if your friend decry and be your bridesmaid, yeah? So I'll play the video. When I read it, I was thinking, hmm, but then when I saw the video, let me play it one sec. If you selected your bridesmaids and one of your closest friends is you're maid of honour would you be upset if she refused to be or turned down being a bridesmaid based on the premises that she doesn't have the financial means to be able to all the responsibilities that come with being a maid of honour I've been having this debate over the weekend and I'd love to know your thoughts Let me know in the comments. What on earth is there to be offended by?

Buda. I'm having this debate over the weekend and I'd love to know your thoughts. Let me know in the comments. What on earth is there to be offended by?

Bada.

It's either I'm going to solve your financial problems because I want you to be my made of

honour that badly or I have to accept that both of us financially can't afford me to be my

made of honour then.

Yeah.

Do you know what?

I'll probably consider that before I pick.

Yeah, same. Yeah. Do you know what? I'll probably consider that before I pick. Yeah, same.

Yeah.

But you can't look at me

and think,

oh, she can't afford it.

No, but you consider

the financial responsibility.

Yeah, but it's rude, but yeah, but I might be able to afford it. No, but it's like if we're close, we're close friends, If we're close friends, I don't know, she might have just had a baby, bought a house, got a new job.

I'm going to think maybe she might, she might kind of fall with it.

You're going to have the conversation with her.

Yeah.

You have to, though, because remember, if you assume and don't tell her, she might take offence that. Yeah, yeah. No, as in that I might even like, not directly ask, but, you know, I'd have little conversations to figure out if she's in a space that that's, like, right, what's your pocket saying right now? Was your pocket good or what? I'm looking at three bags. Well, you got that? No. All right. I'm going to picture these. I think it's a dumb scenario. I think it's a dumb scenario. And it's more offensive to be offended It's not a dumb scenario. No, sorry, I don't think she's made it up. I'm saying you've answered a question yourself. What do you mean? If your brides can't do it or best man can't do it because they're financially not in the right place, I can't take offense. That's what I'm saying. So she's basically made an issue out of nothing.

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