HOW CAN YOU BEST NAVIGATE RELATIONSHIPS WITH DEPRESSED PEOPLE?
Guys We F****d
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4.5 • 16.9K Ratings
🗓️ 5 February 2021
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Summary
This week on Guys We Fucked, CORINNE FISHER (@PhilanthropyGal) and KRYSTYNA HUTCHINSON (@KrystynaHutch), give advice to a Fucker who experienced a surprise Cereal Killer (?!), help out another Fucker who is trying to make his girlfriend’s first time having sex as good as possible, Corinne is thinking a lot about people who refuse to grow, and Krystyna shares some really intimate shit! Then the duo chats with sex educator, author, & mental health advocate, JOELLEN NOTTE (@joellennotte)! JoEllen reflects on her own experience with sex and depression, her sexless marriage with her ex-husband, realizing after her marriage ended that she would never be monogamous again, and writing her own rules with her new partners to help weather her depression and communicate successfully. JoEllen also dives into the best ways to communicate and experiment with a sexual partner who is depressed, how to coax back sexual pleasure when experiencing the side effects of anti-depressants, the ingenuity of the Hitachi magic wand, and so much more!
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| 0:00.0 | What up fuckers, it's Christina Hutchinson and Karin Fisher. You're about to listen to an excerpt from guys |
| 0:05.6 | We fucked the anti-slouch. I mean podcast on luminary this week's guest is Joe Ellen Nottie |
| 0:11.1 | She wrote a book called Monster Under the Bed which explores how to navigate sex relationships when you're coping with depression |
| 0:17.3 | It's super helpful. Take a listen enjoy and now what you know when you were talking about non-monogamy in your current relationship |
| 0:24.1 | What was did that was that something that you chose from the beginning? |
| 0:28.1 | Is it something that you are using to help when you have ballots of depression does it have nothing to do with that? |
| 0:35.8 | It kind of actually has nothing to do with that, but that has ended up helping |
| 0:40.3 | I decided when I got out of my marriage that I didn't think I ever wanted to be monogamous again. Oh |
| 0:47.5 | Really and what is it because you always thought that about monogamy or that kind of tainted your experience of it because you both felt trickered |
| 0:55.5 | I think that because I grew up in the 80s and 90s and you know everything was like John Hughes movies romance and so I thought things would be a certain way |
| 1:05.7 | Yeah, you get a boyfriend and then you're allowed to have sex because you have that boyfriend and whatever |
| 1:10.2 | Yeah, and looking back on my experience when I was younger, I was never like that. I was always like I |
| 1:16.9 | Hooked up with this guy at this party and what and my friends would always be like well, that's weird. Be on to that. We have boyfriends and |
| 1:22.5 | Looking back I was like oh for me it was never about meet this guy settle down whatever |
| 1:29.2 | so |
| 1:30.8 | How that's played out in my relationships is I'm not like we have a triad and we all hang out together non monogamous |
| 1:37.8 | I am |
| 1:39.3 | Like I have my partner who lives here in Oregon. I have a partner who lives in Nashville |
| 1:43.9 | I have a partner who lives. Yeah, I have a partner who lives in New York City |
| 1:47.5 | Now pandemic times mean I haven't seen any of these people in ages, but normally I would see |
| 1:53.6 | Somebody every couple of months and then I have my partner who lives here who I see a lot more |
| 1:57.8 | Wow, I'm so easy primary partner. You're your Oregon partner. I tend to not use I tend to not say that because I hate it |
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