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www Muslim Central.com forward slash donate. We are too preachy with our family. We start

becoming a Satib and a speaker to our families and they get annoyed and you make the problem worse.

Instead of making things better you end up making them worse.

Sometimes the best way to deal with our family is the most indirect path. I'm going to start with a couple of common ones where do, where do I start helping?

So someone who was in the wrong path, sitting, not praying, not listening to anyone.

So, I mean, this is a very common question.

Some of you have these questions about your family members, some of you have them about your friends and other situations.

A couple of important pointers here. Number one, the Prophet, so I said

that was not given any authority to change his own uncle.

And the Quran is full of prophets who were not able to make,

bring change to their loved ones right so no

how d i say salam couldn't change his wife and you know b b b b b b b b b b b b i am kudin

and so on and so forth right so the reason that's given to us is because you're not given the authority or the ability to

change someone else.

What you are given the ability to do is to remind someone else. What you are given the ability to do is to remind someone else.

Then the question becomes what's the most effective way you can remind someone?

And my opinion on that is that we are too preachy with our family.

We start becoming a Satib and a speaker

to our families and they get annoyed and you make the problem worse.

Instead of making things better you end up making them worse.

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