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Dr. Laura.com. Sherry, welcome to the program. Hi, thank you for taking my call. Thank you. What can I do

for you? Um, well, um, my husband and I have been married for 30 years.

We're a good place in our life. We've had a good relationship.

I feel like the last few years we've really, I don't know, my husband's kind of pulled back from me.

I've got some issues with post-menopause, you know, how many things can go along with that,

and I've been really struggling and trying to work it out.

I feel like things have just changed.

He's just not that interested.

He spends a lot of time on his phone. Most many postmenopausal

women act like they're just not interested to their men too. That's what it looks like

for the guy's point of view. I do realize that and I do appreciate that. I feel like as this is happening,

I feel like I'm the only one trying to do things.

I don't know how to say it.

I feel like he doesn't participate in our home, in our chores,

in anything,

and I just feel like he's just pulled right back, and I don't know how to...

I'm tired.

What if it had nothing to do with you, but it only had something to do with him?

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