How and When to Show Maturity, Refinement, Connection, and Chivalry to Women

The Unapologetic Man Podcast

Mark Sing

Dating, Seduction, Masculinity, Girlfriend, Women, Pua, Masculine, Education, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Nlp, Girls, Attraction, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 8 May 2025

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Once men learn that being the 'nice guy' doesn't work, they usually get led down the path of being the bad boy. They'll be playful, banter with her, bust her chops.

While this is important when it comes to getting her attracted to you, it's not the complete picture. You need to know when and how to be mature, to let her know that you can be serious, chilvalrous and respectful.

The key is balancing these elements together with the banter and playfulness. In today's episode, Mark breaks down how this whole dynamic works so you'll know exactly when to stop the jokes and be serious with her.

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0:00.0	So I was driving down the road with my girl the other day and she turns to me and she's like, are you even listening to me?
0:06.7	And I think to myself, that's a weird way to start a conversation.
0:10.6	Welcome to the unapologetic man podcast.
0:13.8	The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it.
0:28.3	What is up, gentlemen? Happy Thursday. Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the
0:32.4	UMP and today, boys. We are going to talk about how and when to show chivalry, refinement, maturity, trust,
0:41.4	and connection with women. This is something that gets a lot of guys blown out. Usually not the
0:46.4	biggest reason they get blown out, not the biggest reason they get put in the friend zone,
0:50.5	but it's the biggest reason you get labeled as a player or one of the biggest reasons that guys
0:55.4	get left in relationships. So in this game, you have to have game, right? You have to know how to
1:01.6	flirt with girls. You have to be interesting. You have to make them laugh. You have to intrigue them,
1:07.0	build on their emotions. But at the same time, you have to build what I call trust and connection,
1:12.3	the TNC rule.
1:14.0	So we're going to talk about how to be chivalrous, how to be mature, how to be refined,
1:18.8	and how to actually build that trust and connection in today's episode, and make sure to
1:23.2	stay tuned until the end because I got a lot of good shit to drop in your lap today.
1:26.8	So trust and connection is exactly as it sounds. It's you're building... stay tuned until the end because I got a lot of good shit to drop in your lap today. So,
1:33.0	trust and connection is exactly as it sounds. It's you're building a relationship with the girl.
1:36.8	You're building trust with her. You're showing her that you're ultimately real.
1:42.1	Now, the problem with most guys, and I see this all the time with guys who are dating girls on a first date or guys who approach a girl in the nightclub,
1:45.1	is that this is pretty much all they do.
1:47.5	They try to build rapport.
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