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Hotline Calls: Why Masturbate When I Can Have Sex?

Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.36.8K Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Ever felt like orgasming with a partner is like solving a Rubik's cube blindfolded? Well, you're not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I dive headfirst into this problem with a few tricks up our sleeves. Next on the agenda: how to tell your loving partner you want to be humiliated in the bedroom. I give you the tools to help your partner feel more comfortable with the idea. Then we discuss the ever growing debate: is masturbating with a cam girl considered cheating? Stick around to hear my two cents. And finally, we're talking about masturbating, even when you've got a willing partner on standby. We'll weigh the pros and cons, and why solo sex deserves just as much love as partnered sex. In this episode, you’ll learn: About core erotic desires The benefits of masturbation (by yourself and with a partner) How to communicate your fantasies to a partner See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: 2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever 2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide 6 Ways to Upgrade Your 69 How to Find the G-Spot Magic Wand Micro SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

When you prioritize

0:04.1

prioritize masturbation it's also an act of rebellion in a way against your

0:06.8

upbringing. Prioritizing your own pleasure, independent of a male

0:10.1

orgasm and aside from it just being about procreation is an act of self-care and

0:15.8

maybe it is a little rebellious but it's also part of the journey that you're sharing

0:19.6

that you're on and we support you. You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you

0:26.7

prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. Strap in or

0:32.4

strap on because we've got a juicy hotline calls

0:36.2

episode for you. Now you've all been leaving me the most incredibly thoughtful

0:40.9

vulnerable voicemails and I just have to thank you all for

0:44.5

normalizing these sex conversations today producer Erica and I are answering your

0:49.1

questions about what to do if you can orgasm by yourself,

0:53.4

but not with any of your partners.

0:55.7

Humiliation kinks, which are more common than you'd think.

0:58.9

What does it mean when you catch your partner on chat rooms?

1:01.5

Is it cheating? And what to do if you feel guilty for

1:04.1

masturbating like you might as well have sex with your partner already.

1:07.0

Please rate and review sex with Emily wherever you listen to the show. It really helps

1:11.4

get the show out to more people, promote sex positive messaging.

1:15.8

We so appreciate it.

1:16.8

And in fact, I want to read you what my favorite reviews recently from Travis 49 from Florida.

1:22.8

He says,

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