Hotline Calls: My Partner Doesn’t Orgasm

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 28 July 2023

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

When you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open the relationship? What does it mean when they don’t finish during sex? In today’s Hotline Calls episode, I’m taking all your pressing sex questions. First, when you want to bring sex toys and lube into the bedroom, but your partner is firmly opposed…what now? I offer communication tips to help bring down defenses. Next, when you’re loving sex with your partner but they never orgasm, is that a cause for concern? I talk about delayed ejaculation and why it happens. We also get into non-monogamy: when you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open up the relationship? Or is a different, deeper conversation needed? Finally, when you’re happily hooking up, how do you keep casual sex from turning into serious relationships?

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0:00.0	Stay clear, stay consistent with everybody you're dating, and it's going to be a lot easier
0:07.6	for you to, once you start to really embody this person that you're becoming, and clearly
0:12.0	stating your boundaries and what you want, you're going to find that the right relationships
0:16.2	are going to show up, and you're going to be able to learn how to navigate them with
0:19.1	a consenting partner who wants the same things.
0:22.2	Exactly.
0:23.2	And just as you said, being clear about your intentions, it does not make you an asshole,
0:27.3	it just makes you a great communicator.
0:29.4	Yeah, which is really, really sexy, really sexy.
0:33.8	You're listening to Sex with Emily, I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize
0:38.0	your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:41.3	We receive so many wonderful and interesting voicemail questions on our hotline, and I thought
0:46.9	I would love to start answering more of them in some dedicated hotline call episodes.
0:52.0	And while I love answering your questions myself, I'm so excited to bring in my fabulous
0:57.9	producer, Erica.
0:59.5	She's going to help me answer your questions.
1:01.4	She's worked with me for several years.
1:02.8	She's got a great take on this.
1:04.2	She knows her stuff, and I'm so excited for you to get to know her as well.
1:09.0	Today, we're answering your questions on how to introduce toys and loop into the bedroom,
1:13.6	how to keep hookups casual when they usually turn serious, frustrations and insecurities
1:18.0	when your partner never ejaculates, and lack of desire to have sex with your partner.
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