Hotline Calls: I Saw My Partner’s Porn History

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 3 October 2023

⏱️ 41 minutes

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You’re in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners. First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? Or should her partner have a deeper conversation with her about turn-ons? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards -- is it a medical condition or underlying shame? Finally, she just discovered her partner watches porn… and the subjects don’t look like her. How can she talk to him about it without judgment? See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: How to Master Lotus Position How To Meditate, Masturbate, Manifest Like a Pro Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant Playground Lube Feeld Dating App SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	A lot of Volvo owners feel this really intense pressure to orgasm and they just say, you
0:07.5	know what, I'm not going to get there, it's okay that you're having good time and I can
0:11.2	tell you if somebody who used to do that until I was about 35 years old, I just told
0:15.4	that part of it was my orgasm didn't matter and I wanted them to have pleasure.
0:18.5	It's because I didn't know that there was more possibility.
0:22.2	I didn't know how to communicate that to a partner that it was okay to take time, that
0:27.0	I could let my partner know what I needed and so I would expand the conversation with
0:31.4	her beyond just the alcohol and the medication.
0:35.8	You're listening to Sex with Emily, I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize
0:40.1	your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:43.4	The hotline is ringing and we're taking your calls.
0:46.5	Today, producer Eric and I are answering your questions on how to tell casual partners
0:50.8	you're sleeping with other people, ADD medication affecting your sex drive and orgasm, soreness
0:56.1	after oral sex, and what does it mean when your partner's search history does not look
1:00.6	like you?
1:01.6	Please please please leave your voice bells, we so appreciate them and love answering
1:05.7	them.
1:06.7	Seriously, I love answering them, it is a blast.
1:09.1	As a reminder, you can leave your voice bells at 559 talk sex or 559 825 5739 and you
1:15.6	can always change your name and your voice if you say so in your message.
1:19.2	Please rate and review Sex with Emily wherever you listen to the show, my new articles,
1:23.6	how to master lotus position and how to meditate manifest masturbate like a pro are up on
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