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Sex With Emily

Hotline Calls: I’m Tired of “Vanilla” Sex

Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.36.8K Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2023

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

On today’s Hotline show, I take your calls about having sex talks like: How to relax into oral sex and give your partner tips to make you scream. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. And how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this Best Of episode, and see if your next sex talk is a little bit easier.  In this episode, you’ll also learn: All about the Kivin Method Whether age gaps really matter in relationships How to share sex toys safely See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: 2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever 2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide Sexy Stocking Stuffers & How to Use Them Why You Should Try Anal (& How to Do it the Right Way)  FirmTech (bundle the Tech Ring with a 1:1 consultation and save $230 with code EMILY) Best Of: Oral Sex Master Class Everybody Loves Oral Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method Sex With Emily Vesper Vibrating Necklace SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok  Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Because I'm hearing that he just walks in the room and starts to touch you and you're not turned on.

0:06.4

Maybe you're not feeling connected to him. Maybe that's what you need.

0:09.6

For me personally, I know that I'm the most connected my partner we have a chance to talk about our day.

0:16.3

I want to feel connected.

0:18.3

Unless I haven't seen my partner in a while, you know, most of the time I'm going to need

0:22.3

other things happening. it's like my

0:24.9

warm-up it's my foreplay you know I often say that poor play starts after the last

0:28.4

orgasm what have you guys been doing to connect since the last time you had sex?

0:32.3

You're listening to What have you guys been doing to connect since the last time you had sex?

0:33.2

You're listening to Sex With Emily.

0:36.2

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and

0:39.8

liberate the conversation around sex.

0:42.6

On today's hotline show, I take your calls about having sex talks,

0:45.8

like telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier.

0:49.8

How to relax into oral sex and give your partner tips to make you scream.

0:54.1

And how to tell your partner, you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into

0:58.5

penetration. If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins.

1:03.8

So take a listen to this Best of episode

1:05.9

and see if your next sex talk is a little bit easier.

1:08.6

Please rate review sex with Emily

1:10.4

wherever you listen to this show,

1:12.2

your review of the podcast helps get this show out to so many

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