Hotline Calls: How Do I Initiate Sex After a Dry Spell?

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 8 August 2023

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are especially relatable: I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced one of these yourself. Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off in one very specific position, how can you retrain your body and mind? I give you tips on switching up your technique. Next: coming out of a sexual dry spell, how do you learn to initiate again? I help you collaborate with your partner. When you’re always a top (the more dominant one during sex), how can you tell your partner that you’d like to bottom (be more submissive) occasionally? I walk you through that conversation. Finally, when your spouse has next to zero interest in sex, what now? I offer insights on changing your relationship patterns to experience mutual pleasure and compatibility.

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0:00.0	I think if you talk to him on your next date night and say, babe, I think I'm ready
0:06.6	to go.
0:07.6	I can't wait.
0:08.6	My body, my doctor says I'm good.
0:09.6	I think like we should do it.
0:10.6	Like, what do you think?
0:11.6	I mean, let him initiate that.
0:12.6	Just let him know that you're ready for business and have him open up so maybe he'll
0:16.2	have to put all the pressure in yourself that you have to initiate and all of a sudden
0:19.6	he's going to be a big reveal and he's going to be like, are you sure?
0:22.8	Are you ready?
0:23.8	Talk to him about it outside the bedroom.
0:24.8	Yeah.
0:25.8	Hey, have a special date night.
0:26.8	Go away for a night.
0:28.2	Do something like that.
0:30.2	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:33.0	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:38.2	around sex.
0:39.5	We received so many wonderful voicemail questions on our hotline and I'm answering more of them
0:43.6	in today's hotline calls episode with my wonderful producer, Erica.
0:48.6	Today, we're answering your questions on what to do if you can only orgasm in one position.
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