Welcome to the Girl On Top, Shallon Exo podcast. I'm your host, Shallon Lester, and you

might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze select relationships and scambles

for a lessons we can take into our own lives. But here on the podcast, I answer the best

questions you submitted over the past week.

Welcome back to the podcast, Shallogators. This week, we're going to talk to one of you

guys who is having a problem so many of us deal with, which is this screeching halt that

happens when we get in a relationship, when the pursuit seems to stop. Now, you meet

a guy, it's all wonderful, the courtship is great, but then you become exclusive and you

settle into, I don't know, some sort of domestic routine, and it's like all that courtship

and the getting to know you face just dries up.

And I experience this as a single chickety, it seems like when you sleep with someone,

and I know some of you guys experience this when you're officially boyfriend, girlfriend,

or maybe it's when you get engaged or maybe when you move in together, but there usually

seems to be some sort of downshift. So we're going to break it down and talk about how

to get that sort of pursuant spark back in your relationship. But before we break it

all down, I want to remind you guys we are heading to Mexico. We have our Shallogator get

away to Isla Hold Bosch. It's a tiny little beautiful white sand beach car-free island

just north of Cancun. We are going August 19th through 23rd, taking 20 Shallogators.

What we have, I think six spaces left, but love to have you join me. We're bringing

our own dedicated photographer. We're doing things like snarkling and kayaking and hiking.

I mean, like, light hiking. You know, I'm, you know, I'm an indoor cat. We are going

to be taking pictures, doing workshops, focusing on sisterhood, positivity, come solo.

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