Hope & The Grandiose Entitled Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 15 September 2025

⏱️ 72 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Hope shares her story of marrying a grandiose, entitled abuser. Hope met her future husband at a church event, initially impressed by his charisma. Their relationship quickly progressed, leading to a whirlwind engagement and marriage. But once they were married, Hope’s husband began to control her in every aspect of her life, leaving Hope in survival mode for years. It’s a story of grandiosity, manipulation, religion, financial control, rage, put downs, gaslighting, shame, guilt, crazy making, isolation, entitlement, being good enough, blame shifting, family dynamics, love bombing, mental health, post separation abuse, court, and self worth. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please ⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠ or send us an email at [email protected] PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Covert Narcissism Podcast | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Bitch is a Bad Word | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ When Dating Hurts Podcast | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.domesticshelters.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join our new Community Social Network at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join our Instagram Channel at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join our Youtube Channel at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	The Monopoly game at McDonald's is back. There's over 2 million pounds worth of cash prizes to be won.
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0:19.0	The Monopoly game at McDonald's is back. Play today with the Philly Cheese Stack. So you can enjoy two beef patties, crispy grilled onions and a melted cheddar cheese sauce. Go on. It's your go. For 11 a.m. Until the 21st of October, participating restaurants, subject to availability at may be required. 18 plus, UK, seem at d rules.co.com. On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an
0:46.6	abuse survivor named Hope, and Hope was married to a grandiose manipulative abuser.
0:52.4	It's a story of religion, financial control, rage, put downs, gaslighting,
0:59.3	and self-worth. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Hope. How are you?
1:29.1	I'm doing well.
1:30.6	Well, thank you for being here, and if you want to be a guest like Hope is today, please do go to our website at narsusistapocalypse.com and click on the guest form button at the top of the page.
1:41.9	There you can read all of our instructions and please read them all
1:44.9	and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form
1:50.6	and press the submit button and please do send it in the format that we ask for. And today you're
1:55.9	going to hear Hope's story and Hope was married to a controlling abuser who thought he was mentally superior to
2:02.8	Hope and everyone Hope had a relationship with.
2:05.8	He really did his best to make Hope think that she wasn't capable.
2:09.6	And I know Hope will validate many of you out there.
2:12.4	So thank you for being here today, Hope, and I'm going to get out of my way and your way.
2:17.5	Hope, the floor is now yours.
2:22.1	Okay, so thinking back, like starting in my childhood,
2:27.7	I would say that I grew up with a lot of close family friends
2:31.3	and like a tight-knit community, a lot of sports and religious
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