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tuning in today. Becky is in Bristol Virginia to kick us off. Becky welcome to the Ramsey show. in Well, I am currently $85,000 in debt that my husband of 35 years does not know about.

And I have just had my old crap moment when I overdrew my checking account because 20 years ago we had to file bankruptcy.

And at that point my husband and I separated our checking accounts because he is a

favor and I am a spender and I got a spender that mess.

So now I am door dashing, I'm working my full-time job, I'm selling everything that I have

purchased, trying to get out of this debt because I do not want to tell him and I don't want to ask him to help me.

And I can't find and door to ask where I live is not that popular because it's just a rural area so how much do you make I make

38,000 a year Becky what's the 85,000 what kind of debt is it? Credit? It's all credit cards.

Wow. And what are you buying? Like what what's on the bills?

I was buying anything and everything I wanted. If kids wanted something which they're now

wrong I would buy them something I would if my mom needed help I just give her a

credit card.

Okay. What made you wake up today and go, I'm done with this?

When I overdraw my checking account paying these minimum payments on these credit cards.

And are you paying any other bills right? my payments on these credit cards.

And are you paying any other bills right now?

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