Okay, so on our last episode we talked about the importance of sexual liberation.

The big takeaway was that we've got to be honest with ourselves and our partners

about what we want or don't want sexually and how this important work is part of the

decolonizing process. Well this week we send our producer Aisha on a mission to

answer the age-old question that came up for us after that conversation.

What does this kind of radical honesty look like in a relationship? What does it look like if the foundation of what you're building is built on truth and honesty?

And what could you imagine if the foundation is built on truth?

Aisha Scowoured the internet and found Erica Hart and Ebony Donnelly.

There are a couple based in New York with somewhat of a cult following.

We just talk about everything, even when it is challenging,

we'll say, like, this is hard for me to talk about,

but I want to talk to you about it.

That's Erica, talking about their relationship

for the web series, Style Like You.

You know, there's a lot of relationship content out there.

But Erica and Ebony have this way of getting into the dynamics of their relationship

with grace and humor in ways that feel productive.

Here's Ebony a few years ago,

talking with Erica for the YouTube series The Skin Deep.

I think I might struggle with sex addiction. YouTube series The Skin Deep.

I think I might struggle with sex addiction.

Yeah.

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