after I moved out, like I did it to save my relationship with my parents and to be able to actually heal.

Like imagine trying to heal from, you know, from internalized, misogyny and all this stuff when every day, day in and day out. It's like, send me when

you getting married. Send him something wrong with you because you're not getting married. Why won't

men marry you? Why are you this and that one? It's like no matter how strong you are if a drop of water

hits a boulder every day, there will be a hole. And I was not strong enough to place internal

boundaries, as in anything my mom says to me won't affect me.

I needed to have the external boundaries.

And my mom is the kind of person where if I told her, mom don't say this because it really hurts me emotionally.

She will be like, well, thank you for telling me your weakness.

Now I will use it as a weapon.

Yeah. as a weapon. When it comes to relationships, are we entitled to the quote-unquote Carfax of this potential

partner?

And if so, where can we get the honesty is the best policy when it comes to

relationship warranties? You're listening to Unsween and Unfiltered the podcast, episode 28 of

Season 3. Dear listeners, you're in for a treat because this episode is nothing short of hilarious,

even though we are unpacking loads of trauma. In today's episode, I sit down with

Selma Hindi,

biomedical engineer by day and accomplished comedian by night. And if you're familiar with

who Selma is, then you know she brings a comedic twist to any conversation. Selma takes us

back to her earlier childhood days, which were void of music, going to the mall, and basically

anything a normal teenager was allowed to experience.

If you grew up in a household with strict and conservative parents, then you will most

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