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The Family Teams Podcast

Homeschooling and Raising Boys Differently Than Girls (Brett Cooper and Erica Komisar Reactions)

The Family Teams Podcast

Jeff Bethke

Kids & Family, Religion, Fatherhood, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Parenting

4.8707 Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Some of our recent reels on Instagram have exploded, and it’s no mystery why.

These clips are touching nerves on parenting, priorities, and the way we raise our kids in today’s world.

In this episode, we dive into two of the most viral ones: Brett Cooper’s reflections on homeschooling and Erica Komisar's insights on the emotional fragility of young boys.

From family sacrifices to neurological development, we unpack what’s really behind these heated comment sections, and why these conversations matter so much right now.

Whether you homeschool, send your kids to public school, or are just trying to understand your child better, this discussion will challenge and encourage you.

On this episode, we talk about:

0:00 Intro

0:29 Brett Cooper on Homeschooling

13:22 Erica Komisar on Boys Being Neurologically Fragile

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Brett Cooper Reaction Reel: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams/reel/DOCypOiERB_/

Erica Komisar Reaction Reel: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams/reel/DPm-gYfkX4w/

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0:00.0

Everybody, welcome back to the podcast. Okay, we have a special episode for you guys. So we have been posting some reels lately on Instagram and some have gone absolutely bonkers. And I like to dive into obviously what is catching people's attention. These are conversations people really want to have. So what I want to do is just dive into a few of these reels and we've already reacted to them. so I will let those things stand. But I would

0:21.8

like to interact with some of the comments. And I think it's really important for us to

0:25.5

drill into the topic and even ask the question, why is this striking a nerve? So the first one

0:30.4

is Brett Cooper, and she goes into detail in this reel about the reason, ultimate reason why she is happy that she was

0:41.3

homeschooled. So just to remind you guys, this is what she said.

0:44.1

You look at the statistics of how much time kids are spending with their parents these days.

0:47.9

It's like 35 minutes a day. That's it.

0:49.8

When you remove bathing, making dinner, when you are face to face with your kid bonding, doing an

0:55.3

activity where you are interacting. That's an average of 35 minutes a day. The benefit of homeschooling

1:00.2

is the opportunities and the freedom that you do have. I didn't have to finish all my classes

1:04.0

by a certain period. I had nine months. If I wanted to get everything done in two weeks, I could

1:08.7

have. I had so much flexibility to do everything that I was interested in. I took art classes. I did gymnastics. I volunteered. And that was only because I had the time to do it. I was not school until 3 p.m. I spent so much time with my family. My relationship with my mom is one of the things that I'm most proud of. I inherited a lot of her values because I spent so much quality

1:27.8

time with her that she was the one who raised me, not a teacher. And I think that that is so important.

1:31.1

All right. So one of the comments that we got on this was from costume design arena. She said,

1:37.5

wish we could afford it surviving on one income with no family on this continent.

1:49.0

This is, I think, a constant challenge that people have.

1:53.2

Some of the responses are Abigail Schwartz said,

1:56.0

we are a one-income family and lower middle class.

1:56.9

It's very possible.

1:59.5

A lot of people are interacting with this.

2:01.7

How do you think generations of your family did it with much less? That's a really good question. Other responses, perhaps you can if you consider

2:07.3

working as well. We've been homeschooling since day one. We have six kids. Our oldest 18 graduated

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