If you're looking at sex, look at the ecology where sex is happening.

Sex is never about some mystical way men and women naturally are,

is what we see as we dig further into data and look at newer science about sexuality.

Sex is always about the intersection of biology and culture of desire and culture, of the clitoris and culture,

of the penis and culture, sex happens in an ecology.

And the more egalitarian, the ecology, the more pleasurable the sex is for everyone.

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Well, welcome to our latest edition of Homegrown Humans with Neurohacker Collective.

I am super stoked to welcome Dr. Wednesday Martin, the New York Times number one bestselling

author of Primates of Park Avenue, her most recent book, Untrue about basically ripping

the cover off women's sexuality and infidelity.

She has written for the New York Times, The Atlantic, and pretty much every other major

publication you can think of and has been the host of a successful podcast of her own.

And I'm super psyched to have you here Wednesday and happy to jump in.

Thank you so much for having me on, Jamie. Looking forward to

talking to you and connecting with your listeners. Thanks. Yeah. So it occurred to me this morning that

both you and I have written what I might call permission books. A few years ago, I wrote a book

called Stealing Fire, which came out six months before Michael Pollens,

How to Change Your Mind, It was also speaking of Burning Man culture, transformational culture,

all of these things, and fundamentally the role of ecstatic peak states in otherwise healthy,

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