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The Most Dramatic Podcast Ever

Holiday (and Life) Hack:  How To Turn Awkward Conversations Into Meaningful Moments

The Most Dramatic Podcast Ever

iHeartPodcasts

Relationships, Society & Culture, Tv & Film

4.43.6K Ratings

🗓️ 25 December 2025

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

Everyone has been there at a family or friend gathering…. That awkward moment of silence in a conversation, followed by uncomfortable laughter or even a topic you don’t want to discuss. Amy and T.J. have some expert tips on how to become a “topic manager” and learn to become a “responsive listener.” We even share an amazing list of holiday themed icebreakers that you can keep in your back pocket to make all of your conversations fun, meaningful and memorable. 

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0:00.0

This is an IHeart podcast.

0:02.5

Guaranteed Human.

0:06.1

Hey there, everybody.

0:07.8

Merry Christmas.

0:08.8

It is Thursday, December 25th, and we hope you are enjoying time with your family, although

0:15.8

this is a time where you get family on steroids, a lot of time, maybe with your close family members,

0:22.5

but also with your extended family and maybe some of their friends and neighbors.

0:26.4

And there's a lot of small talk, a lot of catching up to do.

0:29.9

Sometimes things can get awkward.

0:31.6

Sometimes you can get into conversations you would like to get out of.

0:35.7

Well, we have some tips so you can avoid some of that awkward small talk and actually

0:42.5

enjoy the conversations.

0:44.4

It begins, though, T.J, with being ready to be a topic manager.

0:49.4

A topic manager.

0:50.6

You have to go into your own family with a plan.

0:53.1

Okay, first of all, that's a problem.

0:56.1

With a, you call it a what, a, say it again, a topic manager? Topic manager. They're saying

1:01.6

you should be prepared to be a topic manager for the family, for the group, okay. Correct. Correct.

1:06.6

Because if you have topics ready to divert to, if you've actually prepared slightly before you

1:11.7

walk into this family party, look, between now Christmas Day and New Year's Day, it is almost

1:16.8

certain most of you listening will be in some sort of family function, some sort of extended

1:23.2

family function or a party of some sort where you don't know everybody that well or you're

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