And the What's up everybody? It'sJ and Kate and and Eleanor. She made it to another

episode. She's smiling right now. She's smiling and queuing. It's awesome. She's not the best at her job but

oh okay well just kidding she is she is very good at her job sorry sorry we don't mean to Sorry, we don't mean to offend you. We don't mean to offend you,

Eleanor. Guys, you're very good at what you do. This is one of her, she's very talkative today.

Yeah. She's like, I want to be in this episode right now. This is a very controversial one, isn't it, Kate? It is. We're talking about dating multiple

people. You know, this really should be almost

retitled to going on dates with multiple people during the dating phase you know okay

so if you had to explain the title or like

casually dating a few people in the dating well what do you mean by casually

dating like you're hooking up with them and making out and you're

no no see that's like that's a horrible way that's what people think of when they

say casual dating what we think of is hey I'm going on dates with a person

that's 60 to 90 minutes only for a period of 60

and 90 days. I'm not here to waste their time. I'm intentional about it and I am

letting them know that I'm going on dates with other people but I'm not I'm not doing this with the intention of just like having fun.

Yeah, it is funny because even when I heard it for the first time, I had a misconception right.

I had a title, a definition, what this really meant.

If you ask the question, okay, what do you mean by that?

You just simply ask that question. Well that's what the episode is here for for today and what we actually see a lot of people do is the people who do date multiple people. We actually have seen this one shared so much because I say if you want to

know more about it, here's a whole entire episode and that usually helps kind of

explain why they're doing what they're doing.

Eleanor is talking so much.

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