His Wedding Only Cost $23,000 — Here’s How

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Frum, Eli Langer, Management, Jew, Judaism, Religion & Spirituality, Business, Finances, Orthodox, Jewish, Careers

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🗓️ 20 May 2025

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Why are Orthodox Jewish weddings so expensive? 💸

In some circles, it’s normal to spend over $120,000 on a single wedding. My friend Mayer Gold joins us to break down why this happens – and whether we can actually change it.

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0:00.0	You know, went in with the mindset of let's make a beautiful wedding, a beautiful night
0:03.7	for the chas and kala, and let's do it within our means.
0:06.5	What it cost?
0:07.6	The whole package is $23,000 all in both sides.
0:11.0	So there's plenty of food to go around.
0:12.8	The big difference is that people are focusing on the chast and cala and the wedding, instead
0:15.7	of focusing on more sushi and more carving stations.
0:19.2	And not the people that are talking about your Semcha afterwards,
0:21.4	if they're talking about the sushi at the Semcha, you went over the top.
0:24.7	Because you're not a restaurant.
0:26.5	You're a Khashana.
0:27.4	I like sushi. Don't get me wrong.
0:29.0	But I'm not taking my 500 closest friends out to dinner.
0:31.8	I don't think it's here to raise a child a certain way with everything up there spending-wise,
0:40.4	or whether it's Bas mitzvah, whether it's bar mitz, or whether it's vacations, and then when it comes to the wedding,
0:42.7	oh, we got to stop right there.
0:43.8	Now we have a new policy, and now we don't overspend.
0:47.2	For our non-Jewish listeners, how much do you think it costs
0:49.8	to make an Orthodox Jewish wedding?
0:51.4	Tell me, $20,000, $40,000, maybe over $65,000. Well, you might be
0:57.3	surprised to learn that in some circles, it's completely normal to spend $120,000 to $130,000
1:04.9	on a single wedding. And to our from audience, to our Orthodox Jewish listeners who are fed up with the pressure
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