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Dear Stephen Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about five months,

and he's the best man I've ever been with, and he treats me really good.

There's a situation that I'm dealing with, and my man doesn't understand why it's bothering me.

When we first met, he had just gotten a divorce.

I mean, it was literally finalized the day before I met him. Because it was a quick divorce, he was still living in the house he shared with his wife. He said they didn't put the house in the divorce settlement because it was his wife's house in her name. I thought within months of getting a divorce, he'd move out.

We even went to look at apartments and rental houses together.

Then he informed me that he decided to stay in the house with his ex-wife

because she agreed to let him rent his man cave area of the house.

He said the room is on the second floor and it's got a bathroom. She agreed to let him rent his man cave area of the house.

He said the room is on the second floor and it's got a bathroom attached to it and a wet bar section with a tiny fridge in it.

He said he's got access to a bedroom upstairs too because his wife doesn't go upstairs at all. I asked him about the common areas they have to share,

and he assured me that he had it all worked out.

This has put a strain on our relationship

because he has to stay at my house all of the time

since I'm not allowed to visit him

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