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this one. Happy Shirley! Right here, right now, okay? Buggler, hold on tight. We got it for you. Here it is

the strawberry letter. All right, subject. His wife is willing to share him with me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I was in a relationship with a man for six months,

but we fell in love quickly and we were living together. He is 36 and I'm 31. He's going through a divorce

when he met me, so I made him wait until the papers were signed before we had sex. He told me that his wife

divorced him because he cheated on her multiple times. He told me that he cheated simply because

his wife had stopped having sex with him. He often went to his old house to get more of his

thing so he could fully move in with me. Two weeks ago, he went over, and when he came back, he was quiet and wouldn't look me in the eye.

After I kept asking him what was wrong and accusing him of messing with his ex-wife, he admitted that he did.

We cried and tried to work through it, but the next day he told me that he had talked to his ex-wife

and told her he would move back in because he's ashamed of how he left her.

A couple of days later, he left me and moved back into his home with her.

I was an emotional wreck.

He came over to see me a few times to see if I was all right and we made love each time.

I told him, I want him to come back. He said that it was a possibility if I were to,

if I were open to having a relationship with him, uh, despite him being with his wife. He said he

told his ex about me and how he had fallen in love.

He said his ex-wife was willing to let him continue to see me if I was okay with the arrangement.

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