Highly Sensitive People (HSP) of the World Unite...I Mean if You Want To, If Not It's Totally OK!
The Virtual Couch
Tony Overbay LMFT
4.9 • 668 Ratings
🗓️ 25 May 2021
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
Do you often find yourself feeling emotionally invested in other people, movies, and TV shows? Do you feel like you take on the emotional state of those around you? Have you been told repeatedly to “just get over it” or “don’t be so sensitive,” or “don’t worry about it?” If so you may have heightened “sensory processing sensitivity” aka you’re a “Highly Sensitive Person.” Some estimates say that up to 20% of the population would fall under the spectrum of HSP. HSP’s are believed to experience the world differently than others, and they are often more aware of subtitles, and often process information more deeply.
Today we’ll take a look at the research of Elaine Aron from her website Highly Sensitive Person http://hsperson.com and we’ll dive deep into Linda Moon’s article from WellBeing Magazine “Highly Sensitive People - Hailing from the hypersensitive crowd.” https://apple.news/AuVshlAvgQnCQniOI2R7Ovw
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| 0:00.0 | So on July 15th, 2011, I made my way to Carson City, Nevada, checked into my hotel, and I was all by myself. |
| 0:08.1 | And on the next morning, the morning of the 16th at 5 or 6 a.m, I can't quite remember, I was set to join a few hundred other ultra endurance athletes and head out on what was one of the most challenging 100-mile race courses that I ever ran, |
| 0:21.3 | the Tahoe Rim Trail 100-miler. |
| 0:23.4 | But this is not a podcast to talk about the race or mental fortitude |
| 0:27.5 | or the months of training and preparation that went into it. |
| 0:30.3 | And it's not even a podcast to talk about my friends Trevor and Mandy, |
| 0:33.3 | who changed my dirty socks at Mile 50 because that is true friendship. |
| 0:37.1 | Or my friend Mark, who ran well ahead of me in the early morning hours around |
| 0:40.4 | mile 70 at one or two in the morning as he discovered and ironically fell in love with the |
| 0:45.3 | sport of ultra running. |
| 0:47.0 | Ironically, I say, because he'll be running that same course in just a couple of months, |
| 0:50.4 | some 10 years later, or Trevor pacing me and trying to talk me out of wanting to |
| 0:54.4 | just lay down on the trail for a quick nap around the 90 mile and 9,000 foot elevation mark |
| 0:59.7 | because it sounded like an amazing idea at the time. No, I am talking about what I did the night |
| 1:04.8 | before the race when I found myself in my hotel room alone. My wife had the kids at home at that time |
| 1:10.3 | they would have been ages |
| 1:11.2 | seven, nine, eleven, and 13. And they were set to meet me at the finish line sometime early, |
| 1:17.8 | early Sunday morning if everything went according to plan. But no, I was alone in my hotel room. |
| 1:22.9 | And as I pulled up the channel guide on the TV, I was excited to find access to animal planet. |
| 1:30.4 | And I sat there this evening before my run and I, I binged on all of those programs where |
| 1:36.0 | they show animals in the wild and hunting and being hunted and how spiders trapped their prey |
| 1:40.7 | or how eagles dove at lightning speeds to pick off a mouse in the field or a fish |
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