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The Dr. Leaf Show

High-Functioning Anxiety Isn’t Who You Are. Here’s the Truth

The Dr. Leaf Show

Dr. Caroline Leaf

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.73.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2026

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

High-functioning anxiety isn't a personality type. It's a stress response that's gone unchecked. You look calm. You hit your deadlines. You say "I'm fine." But inside, your body is paying a tax that's quietly editing your gene expression while everyone applauds your output. In this episode of The Dr. Leaf Show, Dr. Caroline Leaf breaks down what high-functioning anxiety actually is, what your non-conscious mind has been trying to tell you, and a 4-step framework to start listening. Plus: why your dog's separation anxiety mirrors your own anticipatory anxiety, and a Pick My Brain segment where Dr. Leaf answers your hardest questions about death, grief, and death anxiety. What you'll learn: - Why high-functioning anxiety is built on the "I'm fine" response — and how 40+ years of repressive coping research shows what it does to your heart rate, gene expression, and immune system - The 4 signals your non-conscious mind is sending: emotional, behavioral, body, and perspective — and how to translate each one - The 4-step framework for listening to your non-conscious mind instead of overriding it - Why your dog's pre-departure panic, the suitcase meltdown, the excessive licking — all mirror the same FAS (Fear, Anxiety, Stress) response humans experience - Pattern disruption techniques that rewire your dog's anticipatory anxiety in 6-9 weeks - The neuroscience of grief: why feeling nothing after a death is protective, not broken - Why anticipatory grief makes you grieve twice — and what's happening in the nucleus accumbens during prolonged grief - What near-death experience research suggests about pain at the moment of death Resources: Dr. Leaf's Website: https://drleaf.com Neurocycle Certification: https://drleaf.com (training opens September) 1:1 Coaching with Dr. Leaf: https://drleaf.com/coaching-1-1 Neurocycle App: https://theswitch.app Subscribe so you don't miss the next one — new episodes every Wednesday. Sponsors helping make this show possible: • Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at Shopify.com/leaf • OSEA: Get a spring-worthy glow with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. And right now we have a special discount just for our listeners. Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code LEAF at OSEAMalibu.com • Air Doctor: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code DRLEAF to get UP TO $300 off today! • Veracity Health: So make the switch to GLP-1s the natural way. Head to VeracityHealth.co and use code DRLEAF for up to 60% off your order. • BetterHelp: Find support and feel lighter in therapy. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/drleaf. • HelloFresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/drleaf10fm to get 10 free meals plus a FREE Zwilling Knife — a $144.99 value — on your third box. Offer valid while supplies last. Free meals applied as discount on first box, new subscribers only, varies by plan. Which segment hit hardest for you — high-functioning anxiety, dog anxiety, or the death and grief Q&A? Tell me in the comments.

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