Hey guys, welcome back to preview lines podcast podcast it's Sarah and Whitney. Okay one of your

favorites is your toolbox tips so Whitney's right you ready to give it? Let's do it.

Okay. All right your first tip Whitney, tell us triangulation.

Have I even seen it right?

Uh-huh.

Trangulation.

Tell me.

Okay, so this is super fun and we usually see this in a lot of kind of complicated potentially toxic family dynamics.

So what it is is you've got one person who has a beef with somebody else.

So let's just say it's am Brenda because it's always am.

It's always a friend.

It's always am Brenda.

So am Brenda has a beef with me.

Uh-huh.

And Brenda is not going to come to me, okay? Brenda is not going to say Whitney, when you did X, Y and Z, that really frustrated me, bothered

me, whatever the case may be.

She's going to go to you.

Okay, so Aunt Brenda calls me.

Okay, so Sarah's my cousin.

Call's cousin Sarah.

Yes, cousin Sarah.

So we got Aunt Brenda, both of our aunts, and Brenda's mad at me, okay? But she's not going to talk to me, so she's going to go to cousin Sarah.

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