Here’s Why Most Men Blow Their Chances On Dating Apps
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 10 February 2026
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeHow most men blow their chances with women who like them on dating apps.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who spent about a week talking on a dating app and instagram with a girl who was initially interested. However, he noticed her replies became shorter and she took longer to respond until she simply stopped replying. He shares what they talked about until she ghosted him. He wonders if she will come back.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne. This is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.2 | newsletter is going to be. Here's why most men blow their chances on dating apps. Well, this is a |
| 0:12.2 | cautionary tale on how to not bore women out of liking you. A big complaint that women have |
| 0:19.6 | on dating apps is guys just chit-chat and |
| 0:21.9 | goes on for days and weeks and they never ask them out, they never get around to doing anything, |
| 0:26.5 | and eventually the girl fades away. So as the book says, 3% man, your job is to create an opportunity |
| 0:34.8 | for sex tapping, which is obviously what a date is. |
| 0:38.5 | And so if you're meeting a girl in an app and you both match, typically she likes you, you like her. |
| 0:44.1 | In other words, you passed her physical attraction test. |
| 0:47.6 | She liked you enough to potentially go out with you. |
| 0:50.7 | So all you really need to do is send a few texts back and forth so she could see that you're |
| 0:56.3 | a normal person and you can carry on a conversation. And then after a few messages, give her your |
| 1:02.6 | phone number, say, hey, let's chat on the phone and maybe meet up for a drink. Pretty simple. |
| 1:09.2 | If she doesn't feel comfortable calling you, say here's my number give me a call |
| 1:13.7 | or send me your number and i'll give you a call and we can chat and maybe meet up for a drink |
| 1:17.3 | so it's pretty simple to do that but what this guy did which is he's thinking well i got to let |
| 1:24.7 | this girl get to know me and we'll text for a few weeks and then maybe we'll get around and going out. And women like men that have confidence. That's the |
| 1:33.4 | number one male strength characteristic that women love and men. They want you to be direct. They want |
| 1:38.2 | to be decisive and they want you to get to the point. And the more are you talk and text |
| 1:43.7 | because this guy was talking or texting |
| 1:46.4 | through the app, and then instead of getting a number or offering his and then asking for hers if |
| 1:50.7 | she wasn't comfortable and he'd call her, he says, what's your Instagram? So they go from one app to another |
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