Hey everyone it's Leslie Lutie host of the Set-A-Part-Gull Podcast biblical encouragement for women of all ages.

This week we're going to dive into a very practical topic of how to help men in our lives choose honor. Honor is something that is so lost in today's culture

especially among men and I'm sure if you're a woman of any age you've noticed

this where back in the day when the you know Jane

Austin romance stories even just you know multiple generations ago in this country

there was a certain civilly that men knew that they should have towards women they were gentlemen

They were sensitive to open doors and and pull out chairs for women and treat them with respect and now you really see the

opposite happening all around and even the men in our own lives often don't know how to

live honorably toward women simply because they've never been

taught. There's no really role models for them as they're growing up oftentimes so

they don't really gain that pattern. But we as women actually have the ability to help men choose a

lifestyle of honor, sometimes they just need to be championed in that area. And so

many women today get frustrated with the lack of honor

and they swing to this extreme of just constantly criticizing and mocking

men and that's actually counterproductive.

When women become sarcastic and critical towards men, it does not

inspire them to want to be honorable or to change their behavior. But when women

approach men with the attitude of heaven and are Christ like in their example

it can be a tremendous inspiration for today's men to choose honor over selfishness

so I want to share with you a story which maybe you've heard in previous courses or

podcast but it was really when I realized that Eric was a man who had chosen

honor towards women and it was when we were first getting to know each other

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