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Helping Kids Connect with Their Grandparents :: Isabel Tom [Ep 509]

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Don't Mom Alone Podcast

Kids & Family, Leisure, Parenting, Education

52.3K Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Do you feel that it is hard to connect with your aging parents? Are your kids and grandparents not communicating well through the generational gap? 

In this episode, Isabel Tom, author of The Value of Wrinkles shares insights into her background, her work with the elderly, and her experience growing up in a multigenerational household. She gives a unique perspective of how much joy and life we can bring to the generation before us but it takes a lot of intentionality. This conversation covers practical tips for deepening these family ties and the mutual blessings they can bring.

We cover a wide range of topics-

  • Simple ways to involve children in caring for their grandparents or older relatives
  • How to foster meaningful conversations across generations
  • How small acts of kindness can make a big difference in an elder’s life
  • An Investigator Kit Isabela created to help families connect 
  • How to talk to your kids about elder issues- dementia or physical constraints

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, y'all, welcome back to the Don't Mom Alone podcast.

0:10.1

I'm your host, Heather McFaddean, and this is the place where I get to walk alongside you

0:14.2

and connect you with people and resources so you know that you don't mom alone.

0:18.8

And in this episode, number 5009, I'm welcoming to the show,

0:22.5

Isabel Tom. I think our kids also appreciate, you know, they are in a social environment

0:28.7

where everybody has phones and is constantly just like not giving you their attention.

0:33.0

And I have found that it is the older people in my life who they're listening to me.

0:37.9

They are not checking their phones.

0:39.7

They're not like looking over there and saying like, I got to do this.

0:42.5

I got to do this.

0:43.1

Hold on one second.

0:44.7

They're just like ready to listen.

0:46.9

And so they have that availability.

0:49.5

Isabel, a self-described retired grandkid is also a mom and a daughter.

0:53.6

And today she is sharing insights

0:55.5

from her book.

0:56.6

She wrote The Value of Rinkles.

0:58.7

She has a background working with the elderly and grew up in a multi-generational household.

1:04.3

She has a great perspective on how much joy and life we can bring to the generation that

1:10.0

has gone before us and how much

1:11.4

of a mutual blessing it can be to us and our kids. She also gives really simple ways to

1:17.8

involve our kids in connecting with their grandparents and creating meaningful conversations.

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