Being with my current partner, he has pretty much made me felt like I am probably a lesbian

since I haven't been able to orgasm through penetration.

Hello there lovins and friends and welcome to the Lovers and Friends podcast.

My name is Shan Buu-Dram and I'm a sexologist who has been working as a public figure educator

for 15 years.

I've talked about sex and relationships everywhere from the view, to playboy, from YouTube

to Netflix, but this right here, this is my very first podcast.

For the first time in my career here and only here, I'm going to be combining my educational

backgrounds in sexology, psychology and journalism to deep dive into all things intimacy, which

I define as anything under the umbrella of sex, relationships and attachments.

All the shit that you know I care about so deeply and so do you, even if you never gave

it all that much thought before.

Hold on, can we put some scary epic music over this next part?

2020.

2020 is a year that mankind will never forget and even though we all went through the

pandemic together, everyone's experiences as a result of it were incredibly different.

Next in my opinion for one huge commonality.

I believe that in 2020, every single one of us re-evaluated our relationships, partnered,

plutonics, sexual and selves.

I also believe that a lot of people have zero clue what to make of this new, tacit knowledge,

especially given the fact that we aren't given much information to successfully navigate

our intimate relationships to begin with.

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