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Yo, what's up guys? This is Anatomy of Sex. This is a free episode. If you want more episodes

like this, go to patreon.com forward slash anatomy of sex. We talk about the real sexy questions

and it's a lot of fun. So today, like I said, is a free episode and Melanie has a question.

Let's go for it. It says sexless marriage. Now, I'm going to change some of these numbers

in case people get upset. I have been married for 39 years. That's actually very close

to the real number. And my spouse and I have not been intimate since 2019, except for three

times when someone was staying with us. My wife is going through menopause and I get

told that it's not me, it's her. I've been more attentive, more romantic, given her space

and nothing works. She won't even try supplements or discussing the issue with a doctor. I've

done all the recommendations from other websites to no avail. Any thoughts are welcome. So

this is, again, I edited numbers slightly, but this is very, very close. So this is nearly

40 years of marriage and three years of not having sex, except for three years.

Oh, that's longer than, oh yeah, three years. Okay. Yeah, I know. So basically once a year

I've had sex once a year for the last three to four years. What is your even, even take

on that? Say that you didn't even like sex, but other things were okay in our marriage.

There's other things are okay. Yeah, we talk, you know, we're on the same page financially,

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