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I Don't Have Enough FAITH to Be an ATHEIST

Help! My Loved One Says I’m Toxic! | with Alisa Childers and Tim Barnett

I Don't Have Enough FAITH to Be an ATHEIST

Dr. Frank Turek

Religion & Spirituality, Education, Christianity

4.85K Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2024

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary



What do you do when someone calls you "toxic" and says they don't want you in their life anymore? Is it even possible to reason with someone who rejects reason and objective truth? Because deconstruction can manifest itself in various ways and across various types of relationships, there is no one-size-fits all approach to these questions. But how do you determine what to say, how to say it, and when to even set your own personal boundaries in conversations about faith and doubt?

This week, Alisa Childers and Tim Barnett return to continue the discussion on their brand-new book, 'The Deconstruction of Christianity: What It Is, Why It’s Destructive, and How to Respond.' Frank, Alisa, and Tim will unpack some of the challenges that come with walking alongside people in the process of deconstruction and tips on how Christians can navigate these unique challenges. What's the connection between deconstruction and critical theory? Should you feel guilty if you fail to successfully reach an ex-vangelical? How can you discern the motivation behind a person's decision to deconstruct? All this and more will be discussed in this special follow-up podcast episode!

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Resources mentioned in this episode:

Tim and Alisa's book: https://a.co/d/1MnXiDr

Alisa Childer's website: https://alisachilders.com/

Red Pen Logic on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RedPenLogic

Reality Apologetics Conference (Texas): https://www.realityapologetics.com/tx/

Transcript

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0:00.0

Does truth exist?

0:03.0

Because you have faith, does that make this book true?

0:05.0

Does God exist?

0:07.0

So when someone says there is no truth, if you apply the claim to itself, what should you say?

0:13.6

Is that true?

0:15.4

They don't think Christianity's true.

0:18.5

They're talked out of it.

0:20.2

You know why they're talked out of it?

0:22.2

Because they've never been talked into it.

0:24.0

Cross-examining skeptical and apiistic view.

0:28.0

Welcome to cross-examine with Dr. Frank Turrick.

0:32.0

Do you know people who have left the Orthodox Christian faith

0:37.0

and now they may call you toxic or homophobic or unsafe and they don't want to even reason.

0:46.3

They might not even want you in their lives.

0:50.0

What do you do?

0:51.2

Well, we're continuing our conversation with Lisa Childers and Tim Barnett

0:54.8

who wrote the great new book, The Deconstruction of Christianity. If you didn't hear the first

1:01.4

podcast on this, you probably want to go back and start there because we're

1:05.1

going to jump right in to where we left off we talked a lot about deconstruction

1:11.2

what it is what causes it why do people leave the

1:13.6

Christian faith and now we're really getting into the advice on what you can do

1:19.2

when somebody says you're toxic and I don't want you in my life anymore and there's an entire chapter in the book the

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