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The Story Collider

Help from Family Part 1: Stories about complicated relationships

The Story Collider

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4.4824 Ratings

🗓️ 10 July 2020

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

This week we present stories about two people who had to navigate the complicated process of helping their family when they were needed most.

Part 1: When his mother is diagnosed with breast cancer, Ian has to take care of her, even though she didn't always do the best job of taking care of him.

Part 2: Determined to make it on her own, Yaihara Fortis Santiago leaves her home in Puerto Rico for grad school, but her father still wants to protect her.

Yaihara Fortis Santiago grew up in the mountains of Puerto Rico where she felt in love with science. After completing her bachelors in Biology at the University of Puerto Rico, she moved to New England to pursue her PhD in Neuroscience at Brandeis University. Her time at Brandeis made her realized that she wanted to use her science training to have an impact on Higher Education. In 2012, as part of her AAAS Science and Technology Policy Fellowship, she worked at the Nationals Science Foundation (NSF). Her work at the NSF gave her the foundation to launch a career training scientists at the intersection of policy, communication, diversity, inclusion and equity. Currently, she is the Associate Director for Postdoctoral Affairs and Trainee Diversity Initiatives at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. Furthermore, in 2020 she was selected as a fellow for the Women inPower network. She loves big city living, but she is the happiest at her family’s farm, traveling with friends, telling stories and dancing salsa.

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0:00.0

A science story, huh?

0:04.0

Is NYU a scientist?

0:06.0

I felt.

0:07.0

I was so...

0:09.0

And I just thought, well...

0:10.0

It was that golden moment.

0:12.0

Because science was on my side.

0:15.0

Hello. Hello everybody. Welcome to the Story Collider, where we bring you true personal stories about science.

0:30.0

I'm your host, Erin Barker, and this week we're presenting stories about getting help from our families, something which I definitely relate

0:38.4

to personally at the moment during this pandemic. This is part one of a two-part series on this

0:44.6

theme that will continue next week. Our first story today is from Ian Anthony. It was recorded

0:50.9

in December 2019 at Beer Barron Tavern in Washington, D.C.

0:55.0

The theme that night was Gifts.

1:05.1

I've always been afraid of the dark.

1:08.2

Always.

1:08.8

It just seems to be part of the recipe of me. It's one part blonde, two parts bow-legged,

1:13.6

three parts anxiety. When I was younger, I had to come up with a routine in order to help

1:20.1

myself feel safe going to sleep. The first thing I had to do is stand outside my door and

1:25.6

close it all the way so that I could make sure that

1:28.7

nobody or nothing snuck in while I was getting ready for bed. So I would back up as if I had just

1:35.4

left a meeting with the queen, go to the bathroom, brush my teeth all the while poking my head

1:39.8

out of the door to make sure that I could see that the door to my bedroom was safely still

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