Hello everyone in my podcast community. I am so glad that you are joining me today for this incredible podcast that I believe God has given me just for you to help you let go of things. I think so often in life, you know, we get to a place where we're so used to the deprivation and pain.

We're so used to the way things have always been that we won't allow God to come in and do something new in our lives and he wants to give us a life of abundance.

You know, in Ephesians 3, 20 it says that he's going to do it seeingly abundantly. More than you could ever ask or think. And so I believe today with me giving you some things, just just this is just elementary things that a lot of times we don't even think about that could really help us move forward if we would just let them go.

And so my name is Ruletalk Kim and you can find out all you want to know about me on my website at realtalkkim.com. I have three incredible books out that will help you. You can get them on my website at realtalkkim.com.

Please share this podcast with your friends. I believe that it will help other people get free as well. The reason I do these podcasts and I do Facebook lives and I do Instagram stories and it's because I wish I would have had a meet in my life when I was going through hell to help me get free quicker.

You know, I just think that so often we got so many people tickling our ears and telling us what we want to hear that the reality is not being set to us. You know, I wish to God somebody would have told me before I spent a whole year nursing my wounds after my divorce depressed that God don't just take your pain away. You got to get up and walk away from it.

You know, I wish somebody would have just gave me these tools to slap me up beside the head, you know, and so that I could have lived a happy life like I'm living now sooner. And so I spent a majority of my life stuck and I realized today I was not stuck. I just stopped moving. And so that's a word for somebody.

So today we're going to talk about on real talk. Kim, you can find out all my information on my website, we'll talk to him.com. I travel all over the world. My three books are beautifully broken beautifully whole and when your bad meets is good. Go get those books. They will bless you. And if I'm in an area city near you, make sure you come hug me and get to one of my vets. So we're going to talk about today about what what what in our lives have we been nursing have we been pacifying.

That's holding us back and keeping us stuck when we are not really stuck because we're not a tree. And as long as we ain't dead, God ain't done. But we have a part to play in moving forward.

So the first thing that you got to let go of is you got to let go of your opinion of everyone else's life. Let go of your opinion of everyone else's life. No one has a perfect life.

You see filter photos on Instagram and highlight rules on Facebook. You see blissful accounts of seemingly thoughtless relationships and handpicked reflections of those you follow on social media.

But you never truly see someone in these situations in an age where we are so easily capable of creating and painting and immaculately false picture of our lives.

It is important to remind ourselves that those we envy and those we compare our lives and ourselves to are capable of doing the exact same thing that we do.

The next thing that you need to do is let go of your infatuation of waiting. Let go of your infatuation with waiting.

It is often easy to get caught up in waiting for the things we want in life to simply happen. We wait for the promotions, we wait for the first text, we wait for the easy way out.

It is time to stop waiting for our lives to become what we want them to be. It is time to start making them what we want them to be.

We all have potential within us. It is pinned and blooming between our palms. It is coursing through our veins.

If we meet our visions with the same level of Ruthless effort, we cannot fail at making even our craziest dreams a reality.

The next thing you have to let go of in order to move and run into your blissful, amazing, exceedingly abundantly future edge. You have to let go of your comfort zone.

The truest form of beauty in life, the richness and the experience is to be found in the areas that are unfamiliar to us.

Life opens up in so many all inspiring ways when we allow ourselves to face our fears and trade in our everyday familiarities.

For things that may breed a lifestyle we have always yearn for. Think about it.

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