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Hear Me Out: Patriarchy Hurts All Of Us — Including Men

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Society & Culture, News

4.63K Ratings

🗓️ 27 June 2023

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

On today’s episode of Hear Me Out… gendering, everywhere, all at once. In the final days of Pride Month, we wanted to turn our attention to another complicated and contentious facet of the LGBT+ dialogue: gender identity. If gender isn’t a binary, but a fluid spectrum, what do we do with our notions of sexism, misogyny, and toxic masculinity? As it turns out, we do very much live in a patriarchal society — but the truth of how that society operates, and who it advantages, might be more complicated than you think. Robin Dembroff, assistant professor in Yale University’s philosophy department, joins us. If you have thoughts you want to share, or an idea for a topic we should tackle, you can email the show: [email protected] Podcast production by Maura Currie You can skip all the ads in Hear Me Out by joining Slate Plus. Sign up now at slate.com/hearmeoutplus for just $15 a month for your first three months. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Hear Me Out.

0:02.6

I'm your host Celeste Headley.

0:04.6

You're no doubt aware of the hot button issue that is gender identity.

0:09.0

During this Pride Month, we have seen backlash against brands like Bud Light and Target for

0:13.5

recognizing and in that way, tacitly supporting the fact that gender identities exist and are

0:19.5

fluid.

0:20.5

But a fluid gender spectrum is just another layer on the cake of complicated gender politics

0:26.5

in our country.

0:27.6

For a long time, we've thought of this stuff as feminism versus patriarchy.

0:32.3

But our guest today argues that it's much, much more complicated than that.

0:36.5

They argue that not only is gender a verb, not a noun, but that everyone hurts in a patriarchal

0:42.3

society, including men.

0:44.2

You can start to see that the way that gender actually works is not to lift men up and push

0:49.3

women down.

0:50.3

Gender is a very complex regulatory process that is constantly happening between us and

0:55.1

every single person that we encounter.

0:57.6

Robin Dembroff joins us on today's episode of Hear Me Out.

1:01.2

Stay with us.

1:06.4

And we're back on Hear Me Out, a podcast from Slate I'm Celeste Headley.

1:11.6

Before Pride Month ends, we want to chat about another hot topic in this country, gender

1:17.4

politics.

1:18.4

Sure, a big part of LGBTQ plus identity is often sexuality.

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