"Healthy Sexuality After Abuse" with Tabitha Westbrook, LMFT, LCMHC, LPC
The Allender Center Podcast
The Allender Center
4.7 • 648 Ratings
🗓️ 10 April 2026
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
This week, Dan and Rachael sit down with therapist, trauma care specialist, and NFTC® Alumni Tabitha Westbrook for a tender and important conversation on healthy sexuality after abuse.
In a space where many questions remain unspoken, this episode brings language to the shame, confusion, and longing so many carry in silence.
With honesty and depth, their conversation offers a grounded invitation toward healing, one that honors the complexity of your story and the goodness of your body.
This episode engages the topic of sexual abuse and sexuality, and includes mature language. Listener discretion is advised.
About the Allender Center Podcast:
For over a decade, the Allender Center Podcast has offered honest, thoughtful conversations about the deep work of healing and transformation. Hosted by Dr. Dan Allender and Rachael Clinton Chen, MDiv, this weekly podcast explores the complexities of trauma, abuse recovery, story, relationships, and spiritual formation. Through questions submitted by listeners, stories, interviews, and conversations, we engage the deep places of heartache and hope that are rarely addressed so candidly in our culture today. Join the Allender Center Podcast to uncover meaningful perspectives and support for your path to healing and growth.
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| 0:00.0 | If you're listening to this podcast, chances are you felt the heartbreaking impact of trauma and abuse in your own story, or in the stories of those you care about. |
| 0:15.0 | The truth is, we all carry the weight of personal and collective trauma. It's part of living in this world. And yet, |
| 0:22.6 | we also know we were made for more. We were made for connection, wholeness, and a life marked by |
| 0:29.5 | faith, hope, and love. If you desire more, for yourself, for the people you love, and for your |
| 0:36.2 | community, I want to personally invite you |
| 0:38.9 | into narrative-focused trauma care training with us here at the Allender Center. |
| 0:44.3 | Narrative-focused trauma care, or NFTC for short, is a methodology developed by the |
| 0:50.2 | Allender Center and built on the lifelong work of Dr. Dan Allender in the field of trauma |
| 0:55.5 | and abuse recovery. It brings together psychology and theology to give you a holistic framework |
| 1:01.2 | as you enter into your story and the stories of those around you with wisdom and care. |
| 1:07.1 | It begins with NFTC level one. Throughout four intensive training weekends, you'll receive foundational teaching from our team. |
| 1:15.3 | But this isn't just theory. |
| 1:17.5 | You'll also roll up your sleeves and enter into your own story, because as Dan says, we cannot take anyone further than we've been willing to go ourselves. |
| 1:26.4 | In small groups with a trained facilitator, you'll actually participate in the work of story |
| 1:31.3 | engagement, sharing your story and learning to listen well to the stories of others. |
| 1:37.2 | Whether you're a therapist, ministry leader, or simply someone longing for deeper personal |
| 1:42.0 | healing, this training invites you into a process of exploring |
| 1:45.7 | your story, naming both your pain and your goodness, and growing in your capacity to love and lead |
| 1:52.2 | well. Applications for NFTC Level 1 are now open. If you're ready to begin the journey |
| 1:58.6 | toward deeper healing in your own story and a renewed calling |
| 2:02.2 | to bring compassion, courage, and hope to the world around you, we invite you to visit |
| 2:06.9 | the Allender Center.org slash trainings. |
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