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The Mindvalley Podcast

Healing Your Inner Child So You Don’t F*ck Up Your Next Relationship - Terry Real

The Mindvalley Podcast

Mindvalley

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.51.5K Ratings

🗓️ 19 December 2022

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

This episode’s guest is a nationally recognized family therapist, author, and teacher that has been in private practice for over 30 years. Gwyneth Paltrow has praised Terry as her favorite relationship therapist, and many have credited him for saving their marriage. Bradley cooper has even been quoted saying that his work is “nothing short of miraculous” He’s the author of the national bestseller: I Don't Want To Talk About It, the first book ever written on the topic of male depression. That was followed by three more successful books, including his most recent New York Times Bestselling book, Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship. Terry founded The Relational Life Institute and often appears in academic journals and media like Good Morning America, ABC News, Oprah, The Today Show, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and many others. In this episode, Terry and Vishen have a discussion on relationship advice and his new book, "Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship. Stay till the end because we may have a big surprise for you. Listen out for: - The difference between depression in men and women. - The core skill you need to learn to have a better relationship life.  - How many inner children do we have and how to tend for them? - 5 losing strategies that are the agenda of your inner adaptive child.   Bonus:                                                                          - Find out more about Terry Real here 👉https://terryreal.com/  - Want to find Terry on Instagram? Click here 👉 https://www.instagram.com/realterryreal/  - Subscribe to 'Mindvalley Membership' to discover 65+ transformational Mindvalley programs – at a surprisingly low annual fee. You can also watch our podcast sessions live, interact with the guests, connect with the world’s best teachers and find your community here 👉 https://go.mindvalley.com/NOW      Like this episode? Subscribe to our podcast on iTunes, Spotify, or your favorite podcasting app. Share this with your friends on Instagram or Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

When an inner child kicks up, you want to put them on your lap,

0:03.2

hear what they have to say, and then take their sticky hands off the steering wheel.

0:08.0

They're not driving the bus you are.

0:10.3

I am Mission Laciani, founder of Mind Valley, the School for Human Transformation.

0:14.7

You're listening to the Mind Valley podcast, where we'll be bringing you the greatest teachers

0:18.5

and thought leaders on the planet. It has got the world's most powerful ideas and personal growth

0:23.8

for mind, body, spirit, and work.

0:27.4

Hi, everyone, and welcome to our episode of the Mind Valley podcast with Terry Rio.

0:32.8

Today, we're going to be talking about Terry and his book, Us, Getting Pass You and Me,

0:38.5

to build a more loving relationship. Now, Terry Rio is new to the Mind Valley audience,

0:42.4

but I've got to tell you how I stumbled upon his work.

0:44.8

Jeffrey Perlman, he is the guy behind a branding program on Mind Valley. It's called Unstoppable

0:51.4

Brand. He's also a member of our advisory board and a genius entrepreneur in his own right.

0:55.6

He was the former CMO of Zuba. So Jeffrey recommended to me that I read Terry's book.

1:01.0

And in Jeffrey's words, he said, this is one of the best relationship books anybody could read.

1:07.1

So I asked Jeffrey, well, if this book is so good, let's go a little bit further.

1:10.7

Let's get Terry on the podcast and that's what happened here. Now, Terry's book has been a

1:16.2

national bestseller. He's a nationally recognized family therapist, author and teacher over 30 years.

1:22.0

But he has just blown up among many people in our industry,

1:27.1

Janet Paltrow of Goop, the famous actress, has praised Terry as her favorite relationship

1:32.8

therapist. Bradley Cooper has even been quoted as saying that his work is nothing short of

1:38.4

miracles. And to be written for books, I want to give you a quick overview of his books over here

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