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Healing Shame, When Nothing Seems to Be Working | Dr. Zoe Shaw

Good Life Project

Jonathan Fields / Acast

Self-improvement, How To, Education, Health & Fitness

4.63.2K Ratings

🗓️ 15 December 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

What if the shame you carry isn't just from one event, but layers of experiences that typical healing approaches can't touch?


Dr. Zoe Shaw reveals why some people remain trapped in patterns of shame despite outward success, and shares a revolutionary framework for healing what she calls "complex shame" from her book "Stronger in the Difficult Places: Heal Your Relationship with Yourself by Untangling Complex Shame." Learn why traditional advice about vulnerability sometimes falls short, how shame lives in your body, and practical steps to transform your relationship with yourself and others.


You can find Zoe at: Website | Instagram | Episode Transcript


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0:00.0

So today's conversation, it deconstructs something that can be deeply disabling for so many. Shame.

0:07.8

In it, you'll discover a surprising insight that explains why some people can't shake shame,

0:12.8

even when they do all the, quote, right things. You'll learn a simple yet profound shift that

0:17.9

helps you shed shame and rebuild a sense of worth and belonging.

0:21.9

And an unexpected path to healing that doesn't require you to get uncomfortably vulnerable

0:27.1

just out of the gate. You'll also learn a simple way to spot when shame is shaping your

0:31.8

relationships and your choices in ways that you really would prefer them not to be and what

0:36.5

to do about it.

0:42.4

If you've ever felt like no amount of success quiets the feeling that something inside of you is still not okay, or if you've ever wondered why certain deeply human experiences leave echoes

0:48.1

that follow you for decades, today's conversation offers you a rare kind of clarity.

0:53.4

It opens a window into an emotion.

0:55.4

All of us carry it. Almost none of us understand. And it reveals how it weaves into ambition,

1:01.2

relationships, identity, and the ways we show up in the world. My guest today is Dr. Zoe Shaw.

1:06.9

She's a licensed psychotherapist, writer, speaker, relationship coach, and host of the podcast, Stronger in the Difficult Places.

1:13.7

After 15 years in traditional psychotherapy, she set out to develop a more dynamic way to help women heal, blending psychology, faith, and a grounded, empowering feminist lens.

1:24.4

She is also the author of Stronger in the Difficult Places,

1:32.9

heal your relationship with yourself by untangling complex shame, the book at the center of this conversation. And so he brings both deep clinical expertise and lived experience

1:37.7

to this work, making her perspective just uniquely resonant and incredibly moving

1:42.3

and practical and useful.

1:47.0

So excited to share this conversation with you.

1:50.8

I'm Jonathan Fields, and this is Good Life Project.

2:00.3

We've been having fun starting our conversations a little bit differently recently.

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