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The Way Out Is In

Healing Our Inner Child: Pathways to Embrace Our Suffering (Episode #10)

The Way Out Is In

Plum Village

Education, Religion & Spirituality, Self-improvement, Buddhism, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 21 October 2021

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to episode ten of The Way Out Is In: The Zen Art of Living, a podcast series mirroring Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh’s deep teachings of Buddhist philosophy: a simple yet profound methodology for dealing with our suffering, and for creating more happiness and joy in our lives.In this episode, presenters Zen Buddhist monk Brother Phap Huu and lay Buddhist practitioner and journalist Jo Confino are joined by special guest Zen Buddhist nun Sister Sinh Nghiem (Adornment with Liveliness). Together, they look deeply into healing childhood wounds.  All three further discuss: inner healing, from healing the child within to collective healing and how to face our challenges, traumas and suffering to find a way through;  the possibility of transformation and healing past relationships; the original fear. Brother Phap Huu expands upon: the importance of understanding the source of inner wounds in order to start healing them; Thich Nhat Hanh’s teachings on childhood traumas; the Four Noble Truths; his own experience of being bullied as a child and its consequences; understanding and compassion for those we think are responsible for our suffering; apologizing and forgiveness; stopping the cycle of hate.Sister Sinh Nghiem shares insights about: her journey to becoming a nun, from escaping Vietnam on a boat with her family after the war, to her career as a psychologist, and finding Thay through another teacher in the Theravada tradition; how the practice of mindfulness helped her deal with abuse suffered as a child; healing her inner child after she became a monastic. She also discusses specific spiritual practices that helped her healing process, like reconnecting with the body, and mindful movement.Jo recollects a workshop by John Bradshaw on healing the inner child and the deep experience of transformation. He further muses on childhood and creative visualization, defense mechanisms, and the importance of understanding the context of our parents’ lives. Finally, Brother Phap Huu ends the episode with a guided meditation on generating love for our own selves. Co-produced by the Plum Village App:https://plumvillage.app/ And Global Optimism:https://globaloptimism.com/ With support from the Thich Nhat Hanh Foundation:https://thichnhathanhfoundation.org/ List of resources  Plum Village Communityhttps://plumvillage.org/The Inner Child (short guided meditation)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zauJYihF2fQ  Stream Entering Monasteryhttps://plumvillage.org/practice-centre/stream-entering-monastery/ John Bradshawhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Bradshaw_(author) Theravada traditionhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theravada  Understanding Our Fatherhttps://plumvillage.org/articles/understanding-our-father/  The Four Noble Truthshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dy-RI3FrdGA  ‘The 16 Exercises of Mindful Breathing’https://plumvillage.org/library/songs/the-16-exercises-of-mindful-breathing/  Qigonghttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Qigong  Tai chihttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tai_chi  Engaged Buddhismhttps://plumvillage.org/series/engaged-buddhism/     Quotes “I’ve always been very impressed with Thich Nhat Hanh because he has integrated the very depths of Buddhist teachings with Western psychology. And he focuses a lot of his teachings on healing our childhood wounds, and that the wounds we receive as children tend to stick with us throughout our lives.” “In Buddhism, we always practice in order to have liberation – but liberation has to be the liberation of something. Much of the time, as an adult, we want to understand our suffering. And in Buddhism, we have to shine light into the reality of what is happening in the here and now. In meditation and in mindfulness, when you are aware of yourself, you can start to recognize what is causing you pain and what is causing you suffering.” “Whe

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0:00.0

Dear listeners, welcome to another episode in the podcast series The Way Out is In. Today we're going to be talking about inner healing. We all have suffering. We all have

0:27.9

traumas. We all have issues from our childhood that need resolving.

0:33.0

And today we're going to talk about how to face into our challenges and suffering

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and find a way through. her way out is in. My name is Joe Confino and I am Brother Fapu, a Zen Buddhist monk in the tradition of Zen Master

1:09.6

Tiky Khan. And we're actually in his hut in southwest France in Plum Village, which is the

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monastery of Tignat Han. Yes and the hut's name is Sitting Still Hut and

1:21.6

today we are very happy to have a special guest with us

1:26.3

sister sinneem and her names translate into a dormant with liveliness and she lives lives up to that name, she does, she does.

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She brings a lot of joy to the community.

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And if you have been joining our online retreat throughout the pandemic,

1:42.0

you have definitely seen her on screen as

1:45.6

MC as well as offering drama sharing and other activities online.

1:50.8

And it's very special to have her today because she will be moving to our center in Australia.

1:58.0

The center is called Entering the Streams Monastery and it is in Melbourne and Sister Sinium was originally from Australia so it's like returning back to her roots in a way. So I definitely wanted to catch her and have her as a guest before she leaves to Australia.

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So, Sister Sinium, would you please introduce yourself a little bit and just share a little bit with our

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listener who you are and why did you become a nun? What was your journey?

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Yes, thank you for inviting me.

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It's a real pleasure and honor to be in a podcast.

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I've never been on a podcast before.

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This is the very first time.

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Yeah, and we're very... This is the very first time.

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Yeah, and we're very, we used to have like radio stations,

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