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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Healing From a Relationship I Made Up in My Mind

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Religion & Spirituality, Default, Talk Radio, Christianity

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Is it possible to get attached to a relationship you made up in your mind? Today Denise calls in to talk to me, because she's struggling to let go of a relationship that she has been imagining in her mind, and wanting to embrace reality. After many years of casually interacting with someone that she has feelings for, she's ready to let it go and move forward into a realistic perspective of their relationship. But she needs help...so listen along to this interesting conversation! You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She's written seven books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She's also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

So I feel like also that's the part where God was like, okay, this is a moment that you also need to heal from, you know, healing your inner child, like forgiving your younger self for making her think that it was her fault that her father left.

0:19.5

Yeah.

0:20.4

So that's that's one of the things that God showed me through this heartache.

0:27.2

And I'm like, you know, if I didn't go through this heartache, then I wouldn't know that

0:32.2

I still needed to kill that little girl that felt that, right?

0:37.4

I would have not known.

0:39.1

Honestly, I'm grateful.

0:41.1

Now that I can say it, I'm grateful I went through that heartache.

0:45.0

God reveals what he wants to heal.

0:52.8

Are you ready to talk to me?

0:55.0

My name is Deborah Felita and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and author.

1:01.2

Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

1:10.4

The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air,

1:13.8

authentic, counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my

1:20.3

guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.

1:26.0

Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,

1:31.2

mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally, together.

1:36.3

None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life,

1:40.6

but we don't have to walk this path alone.

1:44.6

I'm so proud and honored to be having these conversations with men and women who are

1:49.8

courageously paving the way for open and honest conversations about their personal journey

1:55.0

of healing.

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