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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Healing after Divorce with Toni Collier

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Religion & Spirituality, Default, Talk Radio, Christianity

4.8808 Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Today on the podcast, I'm joined by my friend Toni, in this on-air counseling session focused on the excruciating journey of her marriage coming to an end, and what it looked like to begin healing alone. She opens up about a really meaningful interaction we had, and how God used that conversation to convict her about her consumption of alcohol in the aftermath of her tragedy. We get a front row seat into the journey of healing after the loss of a marriage, and how you have to reveal what needs to be healed, rather than cover it up or numb it.  You can also ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠watch the full episode on YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Debra Fileta Counselors Network⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Debra Fileta Counselors Network⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. She is the bestselling author of eight books including ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Choosing Marriage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Are You Really OK?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RESET⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Care⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Talk To Me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DebraFileta.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

If I got to really like dig up these wounds and do the hard work of being in pain for a little while to end up having access to more healing than I would just trying to cover it up and pretend that a band-aids going to solve it.

0:16.8

Like that's what I want. Like let's go to surgery. It's going to be more painful. It's probably

0:21.6

going to take a longer time to heal. And it'll be worth it. And that's what this season has been

0:27.2

for me. Like I'm not putting any band-aids over anything. These are all the wounds. Let's get to work.

0:39.4

Are you ready to talk to me?

0:45.5

My name is Deborah Felita and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker, and author.

0:56.2

Through my blog, books, and podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic, counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are

1:03.4

really doing and give my guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed

1:09.1

professional counselor. Each of these episodes is meant

1:12.4

to show you that we are all on the journey of healing, mentally, emotionally, spiritually,

1:18.3

and relationally, together. None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life,

1:25.5

but we don't have to walk this path alone. I'm so proud and

1:30.7

honored to be having these conversations with men and women who are courageously paving the way

1:36.3

for open and honest conversations about their personal journey of healing. So if you're ready,

1:41.6

let's talk. I'm so excited to be talking with you, Tony,

1:49.3

as always. This is not your first time. It's not our first time to chat, but it's good to see

1:55.0

you again. It's so good to see you. So much has changed actually since I think I've seen you.

2:00.7

I'm excited to talk about that.

2:02.1

I know. We've talked a lot along the way. We've texted a lot, voice text, but I haven't seen you in person.

2:10.8

So I can't wait. Hopefully it's before March, but at least we have plans to see each other in March.

2:15.5

We do 2026 because that's how we have to do it.

2:18.0

We're like, okay, where are you going to, when are you going to be in my town?

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