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This is Sex, Lies, and Spray Tans with me, Cheryl Burke, and IHeart Radio podcast. Hey guys, welcome back to Sex, License, Spray Tans.

All right, so I have a special guest who's going to be doing headlines and hot topics with me.

But before we do that, I'd like to cover a headline that is definitely buzzing around,

and it's definitely relevant as of now.

It's Alison Holker.

She went on this press tour about her book that just came out.

And she was on Nick Viles podcast, who were actually having on here, I think, in the next week or two.

And basically asked her if she would be open to finding love with a new partner. And, you know, she admitted she has been

asked a lot about that specific question. And Holker said that before she could even consider

finding love with a new partner, she had to heal. Quote, I think the first thing I had to do

for myself this last year, a big thing, because it was hard. It was very hard for me to learn to like myself again,

to learn to love myself. The former Dancing with the Stars Pro continued. Then also, could I like

someone else again? Could I even love someone else again? This was all from heavy.com.

And she also noted it's a very complex situation I found myself in as much as she loved and still loves Twitch.

Holker recognized at the end of the day, I love life.

I feel like for me, the kind of life I like to live, the outlook I have on life, it took me a long time to accept all of those things.

Holker noted in considering what her future looks like, all of that said in terms of finding

love again, Hulker replied, so why should I even shy away from it? Am I looking for it? I don't know.

She summed up by sharing, I'm definitely not shying away from it, but I'm not looking for it.

So I don't know like the exact time or if it's been like a year or if it's

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